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Train Yourself in the Art of Listening

An important component of skillful in-person communication is the “Art of Listening.” Whether you are dealing with a customer service issue or an employee problem, improving your listening skills can help you to achieve a successful resolution of the issue. Once you learn how to listen, your managerial skills will improve dramatically.

Start With a Clean Desk or Counter Area

If there are loose papers on your desk or counter, you will unconsciously start to fiddle with them and may even start to glance over them. Have a clear desk or find a clear counter area, so you can focus your attention on what the customer or employee is saying.

What is the color of the other party’s eyes?

Train yourself to notice eye color at the start of every conversation. It ensures that you’ll make significant eye contact which leads to more productive conversations.
Important: Don’t focus so much on eye color that you don’t listen to what is being said.

Train yourself to ask questions instead of making statements.

By asking questions, you will start a dialogue, and you never know what you might learn.  Asking questions can keep the conversation from becoming confrontational.

Learn to “lubricate” conversations.

Phrases such as, “Yes, I see” and “I understand”, do two things:

1)  They show that you are listening and encourage the other person to keep talking ann 2) They keep your attention focused.
 

Don’t blurt out questions as soon as the other party is finished speaking.

It looks as if you were formulating your reply rather than listening.  Before you ask a question, paraphrase the other party’s words.  Example:  “So what you are saying is ….” Then ask your question:  “Well, let me ask you this…” This cuts down on miscommunication.

Don’t smile the whole time. 


A lot of managers do this because they think it sends a friendly message.  It can, but peoople also often mistake it for mental absence, or a sign that you are not taking them seriously. Save smiles for humorous remarks.

 


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